6 Must-Knows

In Blog by Sam Obafemi

1. Create (or RECOGNIZE) the ENVIRONMENT that stimulates the RESULTS you seek. 2. Identify the GOAL that the environment connotes. 3. Know your ROLE in achieving the goal. 4. Bring the SKILLS you have to bear in fulfilling your role. 5. Choose the BEHAVIOURS that are essential in playing your role effectively. 6. Spot the PERSON(S) whom you must leverage …

What is the IDENTITY of your Month?

In Blog by Sam Obafemi

What is the IDENTITY of your month? There are some pains and joys that come without reminders. It just has to be around the date they occurred and you’d enter the mood ‘autopilot’. Many of us are governed by month dates rather than by decisions. To some people, July is pain. To some, September. To some, January. It seems that …

What Mr Agada told me…

In Blog by Sam Obafemi

What Mr Agada told me. Thursday, March 22, 2007 at about 11AM, I sat in front of a man I have come to have tremendous respects for. He was responsible to determine if I was suitable for employment in the company. And we got talking. After several questions, he said: IN OUR COMPANY, WE DON’T REWARD EFFORTS. WE REWARD RESULTS. …

Recession-proof Strategy

In Blog by Sam Obafemi

A Recession-proof strategy. Today, many people believe that I am synonymous to SERENITY. It looks like that is my identity (and maybe name too *winks*). You see, it is not a coincidence. Many years ago, while I was in secondary school, I was privileged to coordinate several evening fellowship sessions. I attended a missionary school. Several times after service, my …

The Tale of 2 Banks

In Blog by Sam Obafemi

The tale of 2 Banks. What makes one bank have very proactive and committed staff and another have staff with lackadaisical attitude to enrolling new accounts or managing them? This is pretty difficult to fathom. A bank was approached in their branch to help open a corporate account. The personnel in charge pulled out a long list of requirements which …

Drop the Drugs

In Blog by Sam Obafemi

Drugs and Medication is NOT everything. Hi friends, It’s been a while since I sent a post and I thank you for checking. The past 8 weeks have been full of demands on my time as I have met and spoken with several individuals who are dealing with challenges bordering around emotions and mental stress. It has been a tough …

Pace Management & Stress

In Uncategorized by Sam Obafemi

Good afternoon, What if #PaceManagement helps you master ANXIETY and, by extension, manage STRESS? Watch this short video to know how. Click goo.gl/VcDKwC. m a k t u b!!! SO

Energy that calls you

In Uncategorized by Sam Obafemi

Her energy called me to help her. She did not have to speak. This is why. Watch this: https://www.periscope.tv/w/asXcNjFkdkVPcm54TVdnalh8MWxEeExOQlZya2tHbVbZJ0JlqKlxZuI5XGHLCfEdDnQ0Xv7XC7g3221FUKN9 Good morning. m a k t u b!!! SO

EPSR IV

In Uncategorized by Sam Obafemi

EPSR Model for Stress Management – IV When there is a heightened sense of conflict with the people you work with, work for, live with or meet daily, it can be traced to self-conflict. The most times that we have strained relationships is when we are likely to be battling with our own emotions and selves. Last night I met …

EPSR III

In Uncategorized by Sam Obafemi

EPSR Model for Stress Management – III I have practised behavioural change work for 13 years now (in totality) and I can categorically say our biggest fight as a people, individually, is SELF ACCEPTANCE. Too many people are FIGHTING to be SOMEONE ELSE. It is a daily battle to CONFORM to someone or something else. This is a ROOT of …