LEARN NOT TO ARGUE.

Recently, I told my family that I have come to a point where I will protect my mind from needless debates and arguments. Conversations like interpersonal aggressive debates, pro or anti government sentiments, and intellectual point-proving will be far from me. It has always been.

You see, I figured that ARGUMENTS ARE A FATHOM OF ARROGANCE. It is you INSISTING that your point MUST BE HEARD. That by itself is a trap.

When you have conversations with anyone and the person insists on a particular point of view, TRAIN YOUR BRAIN TO UNDERSTAND THEY HAVE A VALID POINT BASED ON WHERE THEY STAND IN THE CONVERSATION.

It is humanly impossible to have everyone on your side of a perspective. Therefore it is very possible to argue on several fronts and yet be correct. EVERY PERSPECTIVE IS CORRECT. RESPECT IT.

Now, I know some people just LOVE to argue for the fun of it. If you sense this, decide if you have the latitude to participate or withdraw. Not arguing can be BORING! I know 😁 but which would you thrive with?

So, as we gradually enter 2021, tell yourself NO NEED TO ARGUE. THERE IS NO POINT TO PROVE.

m a k t u b!!!

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