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Emotions

Books, Emotions, Mental Health

I HAD A FORMER SISTER

On September 10th, 1992 (we lived in Bauchi town at that time), our former kid sister died from complications of measles. It was devastating, to say the least. Her name was IFEOLUWAPO ABIGAIL OBAFEMI. From the moment she died, our family foundation was shaken for a long time. Dad was really heartbroken. His ‘mini woman’ was gone. Mum was inconsolable. Her ‘reward’ was gone. I do not know how my brothers mourned her. They were only 11 years old. I was just almost 13 years old at the time, a month to 13. I recall being blank. I did not associate the death to any feelings for a very long time until sometime February 1993 when I was a boarding student at United Faith Tabernacle College, Jos. Plateau State

Sam Obafemi
June 2, 2021

Brands, Business, Emotions

SHEKAU DIED THIS WEEK: MY BUSINESS OPINION ABOUT IT.

Whether we like it or not, we must give it to Shekau, the now ‘probably finally’ dead leader of Boko Haram. If we were counting, perhaps Shekau has died like 10 times already, between 2015 and now, since Oga Buhari took over. There have been several claims ‘BH is technical dead!’, ‘BH is decimated!’, ‘Shekau has been killed!’, etc.

Sam Obafemi
May 25, 2021

Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Health, Health Coaching, Mental Health, Motivation

INAUGURAL MENTAL HEALTH BUFFET

The Mental Health Buffet was very successful. 92 People joined the inaugural MENTAL HEALTH BUFFET and our 5 Speakers shared healing streams from their own stories. Pauline Okoeguale referred to her sexual abuse past. Lisa Okocha spoke about her sickle cell recovery.

Sam Obafemi
May 11, 2021

Advertising, Brands, Business, Career, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Entrepreneur, Health, Mental Health, Motivation

DARKNESS CANNOT WIN, IF YOU CHOOSE LIGHT.

I published an ebook on 27th Jan, 2017 which barely 50 people have read. I have decided to let more people read it today. You may find this absolutely liberating. A few who have read it have told me they were FREED by the stories. I’d love to know your experience too.

Sam Obafemi
April 29, 2021

Business, Career, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Motivation

PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR EMOTIONS 🖤

We have been raised feeling that our emotions are ‘exaggerated’ or ‘not good for us’. As children and teenagers, how we felt was not acknowledged. Parents felt our emotions were disrespectful. So we also grew up feeling ‘what have feelings got to do with the issue on ground?’

Sam Obafemi
March 19, 2021

Business, Career, Communication, Customer Service, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions

WHAT EMOTION DOES YOUR PREMISES EVOKE OR PROJECT?

More often than not, when people visit SOBCA office, they say ‘oh, your office is so serene’, ‘oh, your office is so casual and relaxing’, ‘when I come to SOBCA, I feel relieved’. Even first time comers say so. THERE IS AN ENERGY YOUR OFFICE OR HOME EMITS. AND IT IS THE SUM TOTAL OF EMOTIONS IN THAT SPACE PER TIME.

Sam Obafemi
March 17, 2021

Anger Management, Business, Communication, Emotions, Entrepreneur, Mental Health, Motivation

I DETEST OPPRESSION AND CONTROL OF EVERY KIND.

I became an entrepreneur because I loved to have more time for myself to do what I wanted when and how I wanted it. So it looked like I started out choosing to be an entrepreneur. But it’s been 10…

Sam Obafemi
March 9, 2021